Why Ask for More Love?

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There’s something I’ve been thinking about lately. I’ve been thinking if it’s time to have a new boyfriend! Yep, you’re not hearing me wrong. I’m trying to find out deep in my heart if I should pray for one.

The last time I desired for one, somebody appeared, and he disappeared as soon as I realized what I prayed for at that time was not the prayer of my complete desire.

Now I wanted to clarify things, what I really want, and why I would like to have such a man.

No, it isn’t about being complete. And it isn’t about being happy. We can be happy and whole even without a romantic partner.

I am happy now. My life is filled with love.

But what’s wrong with desiring more love?

Like a married couple who already have a child and wants to have another one, there is nothing wrong with wanting to love more and more.

I want to love more. I want to love as I have never loved before!

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Determine Your Risk Tolerance When Investing

Each individual has a risk tolerance that should not be ignored. Any good stock broker or financial planner knows this, and they should make the effort to help you determine what your risk tolerance is. Then, they should work with you to find investments that do not exceed your risk tolerance.

Determining one’s risk tolerance involves several different things. First, you need to know how much money you have to invest, and what your investment and financial goals are.

For instance, if you plan to retire in ten years, and you’ve not saved a single penny towards that end, you need to have a high risk tolerance – because you will need to do some aggressive – risky – investing in order to reach your financial goal.

On the other side of the coin, if you are in your early twenties and you want to start investing for your retirement, your risk tolerance will be low. You can afford to watch your money grow slowly over time.

Realize of course, that your need for a high risk tolerance or your need for a low risk tolerance really has no bearing on how you feel about risk. Again, there is a lot in determining your tolerance.

For instance, if you invested in the stock market and you watched the movement of that stock daily and saw that it was dropping slightly, what would you do?

Would you sell out or would you let your money ride? If you have a low tolerance for risk, you would want to sell out… if you have a high tolerance, you would let your money ride and see what happens. This is not based on what your financial goals are. This tolerance is based on how you feel about your money!

Again, a good financial planner or stock broker should help you determine the level of risk that you are comfortable with, and help you choose your investments accordingly.

Your risk tolerance should be based on what your financial goals are and how you feel about the possibility of losing your money. It’s all tied in together.

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Money Tips 03.13.09

Avoiding Temptations

If you have a particular weakness, stay away from it. If you love to gamble, stay out of the casinos. If you have a weakness for shoes, drive past your favorite shoe store. On my part, I have a temptation for books so when I don’t feel like spending, I try not to pass by the bookstore.  While avoiding temptation is hard, it is also necessary in order to save money. When you want to give in to your temptation, this is the time to use your “allowance”.

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Money Tips 03.10.09

Breaking Your Old Bad Money Habits

Take time to learn the various things that “trigger” your spending. When you are depressed, lonely, sad, anxious, excited, whatever it may be, do you spend more? Once you can identify these triggers then you can learn how to control them. As an example, if you were just laid off from your job, although money is tight, you may have an overwhelming “need” to spend money. Perhaps you notice that when you are bored, you head for the shops. Knowing what affects you will help you to discipline yourself to find other ways of comfort.

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Money Tips 03.07.09

Set up a Barter System

Gather friends,relatives, neighbors, and co-workers and set up a bartering system. Offer babysitting to one family in exchange for them doing your laundry or offer to clean someone’s house in exchange for a week of car-pooling your child to school. You would be amazed at the opportunities and the savings you could have using a bartering system.

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