So what if you’re single again?
One tough thing broken hearted people often face
is the added social pressure of living in a
couple’s world and the prejudice given to
single people, whether the society admits it or not.
People may not be aware how great this pressure is,
and friends may often play kind and merely trying
to help, but suggestions of dating at once, and
dating whomever it is who is available, whether
you like him or not, just so that you won’t be
single again, is simply like adding a painful
insult to one’s injury.
But how shall you react on these? They are merely
trying to help, after all, atleast, to the best
of their awareness.
During these difficult times, you can stand up
and remind yourself that you need to separate
your appreciation of their concern and their
misjudgment of what can make you happy.
So what if you’re single again? Make a list of
the things that only single people can do and
enjoy. Let them call it “sweet lemon” or
whatever. What matters is being able to lift
yourself up in this difficult time.
1. You can go out with the girls anytime you want,
with no one tailing behind you or telling you what
time you should be home.
2. You can enjoy shopping as much as you want,
without a goofy guy being bored to death and
convincing you to buy items you do not want
just so you’d go home and finish your stuff.
3. You can watch tv all night without anyone
meddling with the remote.
4. You can enjoy your ice cream and be free from
your diet for once!
5. You can take that martial arts lesson without
anyone being insecure of you being more able to
defend yourself!
6. You can have real peace, no arguments!
7. You can finally speak to mature people with your
mental and emotional age.
8. You don’t have to act dumb.
9. You can wear that sexy dress and freely flaunt
your beauty!
10. You can enjoy your parents’ company again.
11. You can enjoy your teddy bear.
12. You can enjoy the moment and stop worrying
about the future and raising a family.
There is always something to be thankful about, and for now, you can enjoy the moment and tell everyone, “so what if I’m single again!” 
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