The Divine Embrace: Why Christ Comes to Us in the Eucharist

Why Christ Comes to Us in the EucharistAccording to the Catholic Church, Jesus gives Himself to us in the Eucharist—not just spiritually but bodily and sacramentally—because He wants to be as close to us as possible, in the fullest way possible: body, blood, soul, and divinity. The Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC) teaches:

“In the most blessed sacrament of the Eucharist ‘the body and blood, together with the soul and divinity, of our Lord Jesus Christ and, therefore, the whole Christ is truly, really, and substantially contained’” (CCC 1374).

Here are a few key reasons why the Eucharist is more than just a spiritual reception:


1. Jesus Commanded It

At the Last Supper, Jesus didn’t say, “Remember me in your hearts.” He said:

“Take, eat; this is my body… Drink from it, all of you; for this is my blood of the new covenant…” (Matthew 26:26–28)

And He followed this by saying:

“Do this in memory of me” (Luke 22:19).
The Church has always understood this not merely as symbolic but as a real offering and command to receive Him in this way.


2. It’s an Act of Intimate Communion

God created us as both body and soul, so He communicates His grace to us in ways that are both spiritual and physical. The Eucharist is the perfect sacrament for that—just as food nourishes our body, Christ in the Eucharist nourishes our whole being.

St. Thomas Aquinas explained that the Eucharist is a “sacrament of love, a sign of unity, a bond of charity.” It is physical and spiritual union, designed for our human nature.


3. The Eucharist is a Participation in Christ’s Sacrifice

Every Mass is a re-presentation (not a repetition) of the sacrifice of the Cross. When we receive the Eucharist, we are united to that offering. This sacramental union is more than a spiritual connection—it is a communion with the living Christ who offered Himself once for all on Calvary.


4. Spiritual Communion is Real, But It’s Not the Fullness

Yes, you can receive Jesus spiritually (called Spiritual Communion), especially when you cannot attend Mass. The Church encourages this. However, spiritual communion is not a replacement but a longing for the real, sacramental reception.

Think of it like this: reading a love letter and thinking of your beloved is beautiful and meaningful—but it’s not the same as being embraced by them in person. The Eucharist is that divine embrace.


In short: Jesus gives Himself in the Eucharist because love longs to be near—fully, tangibly, personally. He meets us in the form of bread and wine so we can receive Him into our very bodies, as well as our souls.

Here are a few beautiful and powerful quotes from saints and Church Fathers that express why Jesus gives Himself to us in the Eucharist:


St. John Chrysostom (4th century Church Father):

“How many of you say: I should like to see His face, His garments, His shoes. You do see Him. You touch Him. You eat Him. He gives Himself to you, not only that you may see Him, but also to be your food and nourishment.”


St. Thomas Aquinas (13th century, Doctor of the Church):

“O precious and wonderful banquet, that brings us salvation and contains all sweetness! Could anything be of more intrinsic value? Under the old law, it was the flesh of calves and goats that was offered, but here Christ Himself, the true God, is set before us as our food.”
Opusculum 57, “De sacramento Eucharistiae”


St. Catherine of Siena (14th century, Doctor of the Church):

“O eternal Trinity, fire and abyss of love… You gave us the Word, Your only-begotten Son, in the food of the Holy Eucharist. This is that marvelous food which You, eternal Trinity, provide for us in Your love.”


St. Francis de Sales (17th century, Doctor of the Church):

“When the bee has gathered the dew of heaven and the sweetness of the earth from the flowers, it turns it into honey; so our Lord takes our miserable works and turns them into the sweetness of His Body and Blood.”


Reflection

“You do see Him. You touch Him. You eat Him.”
The Eucharist is a staggering mystery: that the all-holy God humbles Himself not only to become man, but to become our food. In the Eucharist, we do not merely remember Christ—we encounter Him. He comes to us in silence, in hiddenness, in love, offering Himself completely. No other religion dares to proclaim such intimacy with God. In the Host, we do not just think of Jesus. We receive Jesus. We are united with Him not symbolically, but truly.

What love is this, that God would want to dwell within me—not just beside me, not just in my thoughts, but within the depths of my very body and soul?


Prayer

Lord Jesus,
You are the God who gives Yourself without measure.
In the Eucharist, You make Yourself small, hidden, and humble—
so that I may receive You, hold You, and be one with You.
Who am I, that You would choose to dwell in me?
Yet in Your mercy, You come not because I am worthy,
but because I am loved.

Let me never take this gift for granted.
Let me receive You with reverence, gratitude, and longing.
When I cannot receive You sacramentally,
let my soul still hunger for You.
And may my life become a living tabernacle of Your love.

Amen.

The Catholic Church’s Message of Love for Parents of Transgender Children

The Catholic Church’s Message of Love for Parents of Transgender ChildrenThe Catholic Church’s teachings on LGBT issues, particularly its stance on homosexual marriages, can sometimes be a source of deep pain and confusion, especially for parents of transgender and gay children. It is understandable that some parents might feel that the Church is judging or condemning their children, but it is essential to understand that the Church’s teachings, though often difficult to reconcile with contemporary views, are rooted in love—a love that extends to all people, including transgender children.

The Church’s Teachings and the Dignity of the Human Person

At the heart of the Church’s teachings is the belief in the inherent dignity of every human being, created in the image and likeness of God. This belief is central to Catholic doctrine and forms the basis of the Church’s approach to all moral and social issues. While the Church upholds a traditional understanding of marriage as a union between a man and a woman, it also affirms that every person, regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation, is loved by God and deserving of respect, compassion, and care.

The Church distinguishes between the person and the actions or inclinations that might be considered contrary to its teachings. This means that while the Church may teach that certain behaviors are not in accordance with its understanding of natural law, this does not diminish the worth or dignity of the person. The Church calls on all its members to treat others with love and to avoid any form of unjust discrimination.

The Church’s Pastoral Approach to Transgender Children

For parents of transgender children, it is crucial to know that the Church’s approach is not one of rejection but of pastoral care. Pope Francis has spoken about the importance of accompanying individuals with love, especially those who may feel marginalized or misunderstood. The Church recognizes the complexities of gender identity and the profound challenges that transgender individuals and their families face.

The Church’s call to love and accompany does not mean that it condones all actions or choices; rather, it emphasizes the need to walk alongside individuals with compassion and understanding, offering guidance and support. The Church encourages parents to remain close to their children, to listen to them, and to seek to understand their experiences. This pastoral approach is about meeting people where they are, offering the love of Christ, and helping them to discern God’s will in their lives.

The Authentic Love of the Church

For some, the Church’s teachings on LGBT issues may seem at odds with the notion of love. However, the Church’s concept of love is rooted in the belief that true love seeks the good of the other. This means that the Church’s teachings, though challenging, are ultimately aimed at guiding people toward what it believes is the path to true happiness and fulfillment in God’s plan.

Parents may worry that the Church’s teachings could lead to their children feeling unloved or rejected. It is important to emphasize that the Church, in its authentic love, desires the best for every person. This includes recognizing the unique struggles that transgender individuals face and responding with care, sensitivity, and respect. The Church’s mission is to bring the light of Christ’s love into every situation, to offer hope, and to help people find their true identity as beloved children of God.

A Call to Trust and Dialogue

To parents who fear that the Church is judging or condemning their gay or transgender children, the Church offers a message of hope and trust. Trust that God’s love is greater than any struggle, and that the Church, despite its challenging teachings, seeks to walk with you and your children in faith. The Church invites you to engage in open and honest dialogue, to ask questions, and to seek understanding.

The Church’s teachings on gender and sexuality are complex and deeply rooted in its theological and philosophical traditions. However, this does not diminish the Church’s commitment to loving every person as Christ loves them. The Church’s pastoral care is about creating spaces where individuals and families can encounter this love, even amid difficult and painful situations.

Conclusion

The Catholic Church’s stance on LGBT issues, including its prohibition on homosexual marriages, is often a source of confusion and pain for many families. However, it is important to understand that these teachings are not meant to judge or condemn but to guide and to accompany. The Church’s authentic love for transgender children and all people is rooted in the belief in the dignity of every human person and the call to love as Christ loves.

As parents, you are called to be the primary witnesses of God’s love to your children. The Church stands with you in this mission, offering support, guidance, and a compassionate heart. In the end, the message is clear: the Church loves your children, and it seeks to help them—and you—experience the fullness of that love.

You may also want to read “What Do You Do When You’re a Catholic Parent With a Transgender Child?”

Jocelyn Soriano is the author of the book Defending My Catholic Faith.

“Always be ready to give an explanation to anyone who asks you for a reason for your hope.” – 1 Peter 3:15 (NABRE)

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