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Confession as a Way to Healing

confession as a way to healingThe Sacrament of Reconciliation (confession of sins to a priest) by the Catholic Church has often been considered as outdated in the years that passed. Many say that there is no more need for it since God can hear our prayers wherever we may be.

Based on my personal experience however, the value of an authentic Confession had often been underrated. While it is true that God can hear our prayers wherever we are, even before we utter a single word, we need this kind of verbal release of the things that continue to bother our conscience. We need to be able to tell someone, a person who is there for us, who listens and understands what we’re saying. And we need to hear that we are forgiven for all the shameful things we did or thought we did so our guilt could finally be healed.

For some people, a Counsellor or a Psychologist acts out such a part. It is to such a person that we vent out our fears, our anger and our shame. For others, there is a confidant or a friend who is sincere and mature enough to handle the things we wanted to pour out of our hearts. But if you’re a Catholic, why not avail yourself of this sacrament to help you heal not only your emotions, but more importantly, the wounds of your soul? Confession is a God-given way to healing so we can find wholeness once again.

“I never reject a contrite heart.  Your misery has disappeared in the depths of My mercy.” – Jesus, The Diary of Divine Mercy

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Redemption

what is redemptionRedemption is not taking away the pain as though nothing bad has ever happened. It is not like recommending amnesia to one who has suffered a broken heart.

Rather, it is giving value to our pain, healing us and making good out of the bad, such that things become way better and much more beautiful than we ever expected them to be!

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What True Holiness Is

what true holiness isHoliness is not closing one’s own eyes to avoid seeing the imperfection of the world. It is not an escape nor a pretension. Holiness is having one’s eyes opened wide such that one not only sees what’s wrong in the world, but one also sees what could make it right.

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What Causes The Delay to Our Prayers?

what causes the delay to our prayersThere are times when we may think God does not hear us, or that His answer is already delayed. There was a time however when I’ve realized a purpose for that seeming DELAY or WAITING TIME in my life: He wanted me to reach a point where I’m totally uncertain what to do next so that my inner fears and wounds could be exposed for healing.

After that, I also realized I wasn’t really waiting for God’s answer. I wasn’t really waiting to know God’s will. I wanted to avoid certain things and situations that could bring back hurtful memories and my real prayer is that God’s will may coincide with bringing me out of such situations as well!

The delay was in truth also an answer for me, so that I may be able to face my fears and that I may be healed from them.

Delays therefore may only mean that we are asking for the wrong things, or that we do not recognize yet how God has already started to answer our prayers.

“But the time is coming quickly, and what I show you will come true. It may seem slow in coming, but wait for it; it will certainly take place, and it will not be delayed.” – Habakkuk 2:3, GNT

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The World is Unfair

the world is unfairThere are times when I feel like the world is unfair.

Why is it that there are children who are born to very rich families and provided with more than they could ever need while there are children who are born in poverty with mothers who could hardly feed them?

Why is it that there are children who are so loved and taken care of while there are children who are sexually molested and abused by their own parents?

Why is it that there children who are so fortunate to be able to study in exclusive schools while there are those who couldn’t even go to school because they needed to work, to find some junk in heaps of garbage just to help their family?

Why is it that there are children who could enjoy their childhood and be happy playing with other children while there are those who have disabilities or who are already sick and dying of cancer?

And all along, people tell us to be happy, as though there is nothing wrong in all the world, and as though everything is fair and just.

There is injustice everywhere.  There is lack of love everywhere.  And even if people declare peace, there is really violence and evil.

The world is unfair.  But I guess we can only say that if we believe in ‘fairness’ and ‘justice’, if we believe in God.  And if we do, we don’t believe that this world is all there is.  There will be a time for fairness and for justice.  There will be another world far better than this dark one we’re living in.  For now, we have the opportunity to be true instruments of peace.

“Love and truth will meet; justice and peace will kiss. Truth will spring from the earth; justice will look down from heaven.”– Psalm 85:11-12, NABRE