Category: Words of Wisdom

We can avoid a lot of trouble if we try to listen even when we think we already understand.

So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger… – James 1:19, WEBBE

When someone tells you you’re not listening, it may be time to pause because that person may have a point. We may not have noticed it, but we may have failed to really listen. We may have kept on talking while the other person was saying something. We may have concluded that we perfectly understood what the other person was saying so we just didn’t let them finish talking.

Even if we thought we already knew better, let us try to give other people the chance to give their piece. Learning to listen says so much about our humility, our respect for the other and our true desire to understand other people.

God is never too late even when we think that He delays.

Now while the bridegroom delayed, they all slumbered and slept. But at midnight there was a cry, ‘Behold! The bridegroom is coming! Come out to meet him!’ … Watch therefore, for you don’t know the day nor the hour in which the Son of Man is coming. – Matthew 25:5-6, 13 (WEBBE)

We never doubt God’s presence more than when He seems to delay His answers. After waiting for very long, and all we could see is the situation merely becoming worse, we tend to doubt His goodness. Sometimes, we even doubt His very existence! Is He really there? Does He really watch over me? And if He does, does He not see my suffering? Does He not care?

We may not fully understand His reasons for now, but let us trust that whatever it may be, it isn’t because He doesn’t care about us. In fact, He cares far more about us than we could ever realize!

When God delays, He delays for our own good. He may be preparing us for the blessing we ask or He is preparing us for even greater things.

God doesn’t really delay, we just think He does. But God is always on time, and in His time, we receive the fullness of His mercy and His love.

And though He delayeth His help, and the evil seemeth to grow worse and worse, be not weak, but rather strong, and rejoice, since the most glorious promises of God are generally fulfilled in such a wondrous manner that He steps forth to save us at a time when there is the least appearance of it. – Streams in the Desert

It is easy to have compassion for our friends, but to have compassion even for our enemies, that is the true test of our faith!

How can we have any sympathy for those who are wicked? What is there to love or to look kindly at? Many times, it’s so difficult to avoid hatred because we do not know how to even start to love.

Jesus Himself, when He was crucified, taught us one way by praying for those who know not what they do. Pray for people who are not aware of what they are doing, and of how gravely they are hurting others and ruining their own souls.

Further, no matter how evil a person appears to be, no matter how marred the image of goodness in his soul appears to be, we have to believe that as long as he lives, there is hope that he may change, that there is still that little spark of God’s light within him that can make it possible for him to be good, to love, to repent of all the wrong things he has done.

And for those who eventually will not repent, it is all the more that we should pity them for the torment and despair they will bear for all eternity. There is no way that a person can escape God’s strict justice unless he turns to His mercy. And if he does not, whatever has he profited from all his earthly deeds if he will soon fall into the abyss of eternal suffering and the loss of God? By his crimes, he has not only killed the body of his neighbor, but in doing so, he has also killed his own soul!

Last of all, never assume he is truly happy. For the one who sins is not on his way to life, light and everything that is good. All of his pleasures are but momentary, and even these are shallow and he is never truly happy and at peace. Only he who sees God can ever be truly joyous and no one can see God unless his heart be pure.

Think therefore of the following:
-Think of your enemy’s ignorance.
-Think of your enemy’s future repentance.
-Think of your enemy’s future suffering.
-Think of the happiness your enemy has lost.

But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing back; and your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High; for he is kind toward the unthankful and evil. Therefore be merciful, even as your Father is also merciful.
Don’t judge, and you won’t be judged. Don’t condemn, and you won’t be condemned. Set free, and you will be set free.
– Luke 6:35-37 (WEB)

“If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man’s life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility.” – Henry Wadsworth Longfellow