There is a pitfall in being a loving person. When we picture a loving person, we often picture someone who is selfless and self-sacrificing, someone who doesn’t care about what happens to him or to her if it means being able to love other people. We picture a person who has no worries being harmed for as long as one’s beloved is happy.
While it is important not to forget that love is unselfish, we should also remember that love does not mean neglecting to take care of oneself. Love is not a cruel thing that enslaves us and punishes us. Love is not something that is unconcerned with what we’d become.
While love sees and protects others, it also defends itself. Love knows that in order to take care of one’s beloved, one also has to protect oneself. It isn’t selfish to desire to be strong so you could be of service to those you love. It isn’t selfish to think about the value of your life as you also think about the good of your loved ones.
You are not alone in this world. As much as you care for others, there are also people who care about you. As much as you want to protect your loved ones, the ones you love also feel the need to take care of you.
How could your loved ones be happy if they see something bad happening to you? Love is not only about giving but also about receiving with a humble and a grateful heart. Love is taking into consideration the feelings of those who care about your good.
“whatever you do
be gentle with yourself.
you don’t just live
in this world
or your home
or your skin.
you also live
in someone’s eyes.”
? Sanober Khan
Find hope in your darkest hour.
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